If you are so lucky to be engaged and getting married anytime soon, congratulations. I have been married for 2 years now and it is fabulous. Just being able to say my husband or my wife when you are out in public makes your relationship that much stronger. You feel so much more connected and like partners unlike when you were just boyfriend and girlfriend. Other people treat you differently when your married too, they seem to look up to you more and think more of you when you are married. It’s just an all other great feeling and it is well worth it if you know you have found that special partner to be with you for the rest of your life.